THE CARDINAL RULE OF LIFE

Never stay where you are not appreciated. This applies to all phases in life. Work, sports, your social life; but it especially applies when courting single women

BAD VIBES

If a girl is not interested in you, then there is absolutely nothing you can
do is going to change it. Review the previous chapter and if none of the signs are present don't waste time with people who are not interested in you. Even if she looks like the girl of your dreams, it will lead nowhere and will leave you both physically and emotionally drained.

By hanging around this girl, you will gain nothing. And worse, she will lose respect for you. At least if you leave with your head high and pride intact, it will leave her with the impression that maybe, just maybe she missed out on a good thing.

MOVING ON

There are a few reliable indicators which can alert you if the relationship is going nowhere. Although by no means foolproof, taking note of these behavior patterns should enable you to bail out of the relationship before she dumps you. Think about it. Would you rather she dump you instead of you bravely accepting reality and moving on?

SIGNS OF DISLIKE

Firstly, She won't make herself available. Even though her excuses may sound valid, if she were interested, she would make time to see you. If arranging a date to get together becomes a struggle and you are the only one working on the initiating the dates, it might be time to leave. At this point, conversations will be awkward and forced, often ending with her making something up to get you off the line. After all, you are the only one trying to keep it going.

Conversations and the tone in her voice will be neutral. She might occasionally look away and seem bored, as if she would rather be someplace else. Not necessarily negative, but they will be absent of that up-beat positive mood that an interested
girl gives.

The most important thing to consider is that most women don't want to hurt you in any way. So, if they are not interested, they will expect you to infer the fact that there is an absence of a "come on" in their manner. Many men will assume that since a girl hasn't come out and said "drop dead," then maybe she is interested.  Do realize that this only applies to you if you have been out on at least five or more dates! If you have only just met her, there is absolutely no way you would know if she thinks you are a jerk and a waste of her time.

REMINDER

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