When Picking up women at the beach,
it is vital that you remember that when most women wear skimpy outfits, they are simply
expressing themselves and trying to attract attention. In other words, they want to be
looked at. The beach provides a relaxed casual atmosphere in which you should try to start
a conversation and most of them are friendly. Refer to Flirting,
Starting a conversation for more information on how to do this.
FACT: Surface area of material worn
is inversely proportional to their ability to attract attention. Here are some tips to
help you break the ice:
Ice Box - This way, you can offer them a drink. This method is especially useful
if the weather is hot and the nearest refreshment stand is some distance away. It is handy
to fill your box with half full with crushed ice and some can drinks.
Radio - Set up "base camp" near the where a girl or a group of girls
are sitting and ask "What
station would you like to listen to?" This not only provides ample opportunity for further conversation, it
also increases your confidence. You could even ask her what type of music she enjoys and
what is her favorite band.
Frisbee/Beachball - Once you have gotten to know her well enough, you should
try to invite her for a game of Frisbee "Wanna
play?" If she declines, you must
try not to sound disappointed but follow up with,"Oh
that's okay, you mind if we just talk?"
If she does not seem to be
interested in you, please do yourself a favor and try not to disturb her anymore.
What should you wear when picking up
girls at the beach? If you have a muscular physique with a great tan body, you should try
to show off most of it by wearing suitable designer bathing suits. For the rest of
us however, especially if we are trying to hide are potbellies, shorts and a comfortable
but stylish T-shirt should suffice.
