You may have heard these lines on TV. This hulky
actor bursts into a dimly lit bar and wins the sexy waitresses with these utterly horrible
opening lines. Wake up and smell the cappuccino. These don't work any more. Never have,
never will.
"What's a nice girl like you
doing in a place like this"
This does many things. Firstly, you are insulting her choice of "Hang outs"
Secondly, you are insulting our own choice of "Hang outs". (You're there, aren't
you?)Very stupid, very dumb.
"Do you want to have my baby?"
Not in this lifetime. Get real. What could possibly make her even want a relationship with
a psycho like you?
Don't even think of calling a woman sweetheart,
babe, darling, or any other familiar term until you have gotten to know her better. Right
now, the only thing you should call her is her own name. The key word here is Respect.
Calling her broads or chicks merely serves to turn her OFF completely. Remember that.
So when can you start calling her darling or honey?
I would suggest that only when both of you have gone steady or at least have been going
out for a considerable period of time. (Two months at least!) Don't worry too much about
it, it'll come naturally. By then, you'll both be comfortable with each other.
This is the 90s. You must treat women with the
respect they deserve or risk having a totally empty love life. Calling her derogatory
names will only make her feel insulted and what's worse is that if you hadn't read this
article, you might not have even known what you were doing wrong. I hope that after
reading this, you will strike out "broads" and other similar terms from your
vocabulary.
